Do I Message Him Or Let Him Message Me?

[abbeylee90]

I'm meant to be going with guy I went on a date with on Saturday tonight do I message him if I don't hear from him or let him message me?

[Rosetta]

Let him message you, otherwise you could look over desperate

[jourdain2]

Let him message you.

[abbeylee90]

Hopefully he don't leave to late if he interested as it nearly 2 hours we due to meet 

[Hazlinny]

Hi Abbey/  Was the time and place arranged by him on your previous date?  Maybe he doesn't think he needs to message?

[abbeylee90]

Yes but we messaged to say when we were leaving and kept us in the loop of where we were etc 

[abbeylee90]

Also not sure weather to walk for 47 mins or get taxi to the place

[Hazlinny]

Is there not a bus?  Quite a long walk.

[Auntypoll]

Hi (insert name) just checking we're still on for tonight . Shall I message you when I'm leaving ?

[Auntypoll]

Get a taxi.

[abbeylee90]

Not one that goes direct and I can't book a boat either 

[Auntypoll]

A boat? 

[MargoTester]

Have you had flooding near you then Abbey

[abbeylee90]

No there's a boat the goes up by me directly to the place. If I got a bus would have to go town and get another bus 

[MargoTester]

Why can't you book the boat Abbey

[abbeylee90]

No availability. Suppose I better get fresh clothes out just incase.

[naomi24]

Abbey, do as Auntypoll said at 15.53.  That will put your mind at ease and if the date's still on you can book a taxi.

[abbeylee90]

What if he says he's not?

[naomi24]

Then you won't be going.  Just message him now and find out.

[abbeylee90]

Is it worth rearranging if he cancels?

[naomi24]

If you want to.