Newjudge and Danny maybe even pp seem to have got the wrong end of the stick. Burleyshirley just gets on her high horse and gets it wrong and wants to look tough. I never said flout the rules. When I said I stand by mine' I meant i stand by my first post. Follow the rules/guidance. Test before she goes. Test positive, don't go. Test negative -go if posters husband can be persuaded its okay. if his still unhappy then either rearrange or go but be prepared for uncomfortable atmosphere.