Apologies for posting in this section. I was in such a panic this morning after my traumatic discovery.
thanks for your responses. I think I'm going to try and give them a good soak, using the coffee excuse if required.
my girlfriend wet the bed once. she was absolutely mortified and owned up straight away. she had to though cos i was still in bed too. very strange situation ensued.
Don't worry about it. Some people wet the bed right up until they're 18, so you are perfectly normal. The best way to keep your girlfriend from finding out is not to tell her.