totally agree with 4get, was going to write don't let it ruin you and your daughters life but i know how hard that really is, so just get on with your life as good as you can for your daughters sake if she see your are strong she will grow up to be strong too, if you fall apart and start exposing him you will be the one that looks like a spiteful bitch ( not saying you are) but thats what his pals will think as he wont tell people what really happened will he
take care and be strong xx