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Thank you again China, you have desribed 100% what my mate was like, always happy,laughing,joking out for meals planning his future, then wallop, we were out for a meal and he was talking about going on holiday with us and then we went back to his house ,he asked me if I would go and work for the place he was manager in and it was all sorted, and then he had gone, whenever I see his wife now I feel so sad for her, so many plans, so many things they were going to do, his daughter getting married,two sons happy and working, maybe he felt he could do no more,,, thanks again China, take care and stay happy forever, thank you for being so honest. XX